Gabrielle is writing an illustrated guide book on sex called __APOS__How To Do It.__APOS__ At a book signing she meets Saul, an established male writer who is straight. She both loves and hates his work which has seeped into her secular Jewish life from childhood. The more Gabrielle tells him about her book the more he wants to know about her life; the relationship with her younger girlfriend Olivia and her determination to __QUOTE__stop using my penis in sex__QUOTE__. As her book takes form, is Saul jealous or desirous? Their friendship is tested as is Gabrielle__APOS__s relationship with Olivia. The film muses on how we write, how we draw. And the nature of __QUOTE__story__QUOTE__ and what it makes us do.